Sunday, November 29, 2009

My boyfriend has an online dating profile(more info to reflect answers)?

His last log in is today, and his status is "Prefer not to say". This isn't the first time there has been an issue with this. A few months ago, I found a different profile with his status set as single, with recent pictures. When I asked him about the profile, he said he just used to it to talk to friends he already had, and forgot to change his status to "in a relationship". Could this be the case again? He only has three site friends and noone has written on his profile. I doubt he would forget to change his status again. What should I do, should I confront him about it?



When I confronted him the first time, he *did* admit that that wasn't the only dating site where he had a profile...but he didn't really use the others. He mentioned that he made a bunch of profiles right around the same time a couple years ago.



*Update* I confronted him about the profile, and he seemed rather confused when I mentioned it. He said that he hasn't visited this particular site in a long time, and his profile probably automatically logged in when his sister tried visiting the site. He also said he would delete all his profiles if he could, but it either isn't possible or he doesn't know how to. He said he'd look into it anyways. He then said he was concerned about me being able to trust him, and he certainly has a point.



Yes the situation is odd, but it shouldn't matter if I trusted him. I love this man dearly, and am inclinded to believe him. I think I might just drop the whole issue and trust that he is being loyal to me. This relationship means too much for me to just ruin it because of some stupid site. He doesn't seem like the type who would do that anyways. Do you think I'm doing the right thing?



My boyfriend has an online dating profile(more info to reflect answers)?myspace pics





I had a similar thing happen when I first me my fiancee. She was on my computer once and saw a dating website that I was a member of and asked me why I hadn't deleted the account now that we were together and I said "oh, I never thought of that I just never go to the site anymore" but she admitted that it made her uncomfortable knowing I was still a member of a singles site so I went in and deleted my account for her and for me.



Maybe suggest to your man he do that?

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