My boyfriend has a profile on an online dating site(more info)?

His last log in is today, and his status is "Prefer not to say". This isn't the first time there has been an issue with this. A few months ago, I found a different profile with his status set as single, with recent pictures. When I asked him about the profile, he said he just used to it to talk to friends he already had, and forgot to change his status to "in a relationship". Could this be the case again? He only has three site friends and noone has written on his profile. I doubt he would forget to change his status again. What should I do, should I confront him about it?

When I confronted him the first time, he *did* admit that that wasn't the only dating site where he had a profile...but he didn't really use the others. He mentioned that he made a bunch of profiles right around the same time a couple years ago.

*Update* I confronted him about the profile, and he seemed rather confused when I mentioned it. He said that he hasn't visited this particular site in a long time, and his profile probably automatically logged in when his sister tried visiting the site. He also said he would delete all his profiles if he could, but it either isn't possible or he doesn't know how to. He said he'd look into it anyways. He then said he was concerned about me being able to trust him, and he certainly has a point.

Yes the situation is odd, but it shouldn't matter if I trusted him. I love this man dearly, and am inclinded to believe him. I think I might just drop the whole issue and trust that he is being loyal to me. This relationship means too much for me to just ruin it because of some stupid site. He doesn't seem like the type who would do that anyways. Do you think I'm doing the right thing?

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Unless he's screwing someone else, you don't have anything to be upset about. Tell him you saw his profile and after you make him VERY VERY happy in bed, ask him to take it down. Make no mistake - if he's happy at home he's not going to look elsewhere. Good luck.

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I found out that my husband was on Adult friend finders and he lied about it over and over again this went on for almost a year. one day I wallked in and caught him on the site, the next day I left him. (He even had nude pics of himself on this site) He is on that site for a reason!
i think he's cheating on you and just making some excuses
Well if he's just Internet dating and fantasizing, then you might be alright. If he goes away for long periods of time, then that should tell you he is using those sites as "fishing lures" to catch a honey.

If he's always there and doesn't get mad at you for checking out what he is doing, then chalk it up to a quirky relationship.
take the blinkers of your eyes and stop listening to his bs as his playing you...he tells you what you want to hear but I bet you anything that your not the only girl in his life...sorry but it had to be said...move on from the relationship...its going to be all lies from him.....trust me...been there...done that !!!!!
only u have 2 b willing 2 accept his EXCUSES.
Well, you can tell on most sites when the last time they visited it was. Ask the sister if she visited the site under his profile name. Then you would know.

Otherwise I think you will always wonder. And then it will be an issue even though you don't want it to be.

And tell him, the only reason why it is a trust issue is because it was logged into today, the status didn't acknowledge you in any way. And you thought this issue had already been resolved, but this led you to believe it hadn't been.

There is a way to delete all the profiles or at least hide them so ask him to do it and let you know when it is so you don't need to worry.

Tell him the last paragraph you wrote too, so he'll know you do love him, you do want a good relationship with him, you do want to trust him, but you don't want things to crop up that would cause anyone to doubt even if just a little.
shake the loser L :P
unless you do catch him doing something he shouldnt be i wouldnt worry about it.. you dont want to show him you dont trust him and hes not doing anything because that kind of jealousy will not work and fights will be often. if i said anything else to him would be maybe please delete them if he can and then he should try to if hes not doing anything then just drop it.. .. good luck
I had a friend that had this issue with her boyfriend, but that guy was a complete jerk. It doesnt sound like your guy is from what you say, so I would say you are doing the right thing to trust him. Sometimes worrying bout relationship stuff is just that you arent happy with yourself. I always believe that if you are happy with yourself, you can make someone else happy too. Sounds like you have a hold on this tho. Good Luck :D
Hey sweetie, don't worry about it! Some men want two or three wives. If he can afford it and he is a nice guy and loves you as well, just be good to him.
You know him better than we do and his habits. If he is often a little cagey about where he is going or been or if he goes out a lot on his own then there may be cause for some concern. On the other hand, if he is generally a homebody and is where he says he is going to be then that is okay. My husband had his site still running after we started dating but I knew about it. He didn't cancel it either - I don't think he knew how but its off now. In the end I chose to believe he was being truthful and I have found out since that he was true to his word. All I can say is that you need to keep your eyes peeled and your wits about you. If you feel anything else is wrong, then trust your instincts but otherwise, let it drop for now. Trust has to be earned and so far he hasn't made enough effort to make sure you feel okay.
He is looking around and acting shady. This guy will cheat. he is already hiding things from you.

I'd say you are not overracting at all. I think it's time to reevaluate how much hurt you are willing to risk for this man.

There are men out there who won't do this to you. Why are you with one who is?
LMFAO.... how can you go through life with blinders on? one day you will be on here talking about your husband cheating and should you give him another chance. Dude is a dog and will never change.
If he was happy with you, then he wouldn't be on the sites. He can forget how to delete it, but he knew how to put the profile up there.
Reply, and ask if he wants to put his bird in the bush.

That will give you some clue.
The best way to get someone to resent you, is to call them guilty when they're not.
YOU KEEP ASKING THIS QUESTION.WHAT ANSWER ARE YOU LOOKING FOR?????????????????

YES YOUR DUMB IF YOU STAY !

BETTER YOU FOUND OUT NOW SO YOU COULD MOVE ON BUT YOU WONT BECAUSE YOUR LOOKING FOR EXCUSES TO STAY.

YOU HAVE A PROBLEM IN YOUR HEAD.WHY ARE YOU A PERSON WHO STAYS WITH LOSERS.MUST RUN IN YOUR FAMILY.BREAK THE CYCLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I wouldn't stay with him. You do not need to be on a dating site to talk with friends. What about myspace and facebook? Those aren't dating sites, but you can connect with friends. It's too much of a coincidence to find it happening again. Plus those sites are easy to delete, so I think he's just making excuses. Don't ask us though, I think you've already made up your mind.
Situation isn't that odd, he is single, you don't own him, you're not married to him. If you're going to "buy" his explanation...go ahead...
Hey honey don't worry about it, it is online and isn't like he is really going to meet anyone, and if he does she may be a thousand miles away, I'm married and I've got a web site up looking for single ladies, and also a few other things, I've had tons of replies but they are to many miles away, it is just all in fun, some of us just aren't happy with one woman, it is nice knowing that someone some where is thinking about you,
Give him an oscar award for acting.. cuz if it says he logged in today, he definitely did. No one, not even his sis, can log on for him just by viewing his site.